The desire to get stripped at a nude beach and the fear of letting the people around you see you naked. Might I suggest that you take her to a secluded nude beach followed by a low key nudist setting with a sparse crowd. The one thing you do not want to do is visit a large nudist resort on a holiday weekend filled with couples of all personalities and (that word again) lifestyles.

Nudists and naturalists can be found all over the world. The legality of nude or clothing-optional beaches and clubs in the United States is dictated on a state-by-state basis.

Visit a nude beach. Black Beach in San Diego County is one of a handful of nude beaches in California. Nude sunbathing is illegal in San Diego, however. If an official asks you to put on clothes, you must comply or risk being ticketed.

If you go to a resort, do not gawk. Nudist resorts are not sex clubs and most are family oriented.

Public nudity is illegal in California, so follow the rules of any resort you choose.